Alicorn comments on Open Thread: June 2010 - Less Wrong

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Comment author: Alicorn 01 June 2010 11:27:34PM 5 points [-]

A social custom would be established that buttons are only to be pressed by knocking foreheads together. Offering to press a button in a fashion that doesn't ensure mutuality is seen as a pathetic display of low status.

Comment author: Wei_Dai 02 June 2010 04:15:06AM 11 points [-]

Pushing someone's happiness button is like doing them a favor, or giving them a gift. Do we have social customs that demand favors and gifts always be exchanged simultaneously? Well, there are some customs like that, but in general no, because we have memory and can keep mental score.

Comment author: cousin_it 02 June 2010 09:21:28AM 3 points [-]

Hah. Status is relative, remember? Your setup just ensures that "dodging" at the last moment, getting your button pressed without pressing theirs, is seen as a glorious display of high status.