erratio comments on Defecting by Accident - A Flaw Common to Analytical People - Less Wrong

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Comment author: erratio 02 December 2010 02:25:03AM 0 points [-]

What do you consider to be 'best'? I've been part of a couple of communities that drove me away because it cost me too much effort to match their levels of praise and politeness. I'd be happy to try to dig up links if I can remember what they're called..

Comment author: NancyLebovitz 02 December 2010 02:27:06AM 0 points [-]

Good question, and I'm not sure. However, neurotypicality can't be totally incapacitating, or they wouldn't be in the majority.

If you remember the names of those communities, please post them.

Comment author: erratio 02 December 2010 03:03:32AM 1 point [-]

I don't think that neurotypicality is incapacitating in general, only for me and other people who didn't acquire neurotypical social skills for whatever reason. It cost me a lot of effort to participate in those communities because I was effectively trying to speak a foreign language, and I'd only just started to learn how at the time.

One of them appears to have died. Here's(I would recommend just skimming the first 5 pages or so to get a feel for it) a forum thread I was reading recently. I haven't participated but the tone in there strikes me as simultaneously extremely polite and quite focussed on the subject at hand.