atucker comments on Overcoming suffering: Emotional acceptance - Less Wrong

38 Post author: Kaj_Sotala 29 May 2011 10:57AM

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Comment author: atucker 30 May 2011 12:49:34AM -1 points [-]

Do you know of any particular ways to keep score on your ability to manage suffering? Particularly if you don't have recurring or frequent sources of negative feelings?

Comment author: jimmy 30 May 2011 03:41:43AM 2 points [-]

Particularly if you don't have recurring or frequent sources of negative feelings?

It sounds like you're doing it right already..

Comment author: atucker 30 May 2011 03:48:17AM *  -1 points [-]

Heh. Well, I still do feel pretty bad about some things -- they just don't pop up often. I was wondering because I don't want to start fights in order to have things to worry about.

Comment author: jimmy 30 May 2011 05:47:12PM 1 point [-]

You can imagine what you'd do and actually get some useful information. If you don't like the way you react in your imagination, fix it, and it can actually apply in real life too.

Comment author: Kaj_Sotala 30 May 2011 08:17:27AM 0 points [-]

You could simply have a file where, for each day, you mark off whether you've gone the whole day without suffering or not.

Note that suffering doesn't have to be anything extreme. Suppose you have to carry some heavy, uncomfortable bags, or you feel mild annoyance about somebody saying something inappropriate. Those are still sources of suffering, if only mild ones.