handoflixue comments on The True Rejection Challenge - Less Wrong

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Comment author: handoflixue 27 June 2011 11:27:31PM 6 points [-]

Perhaps you're operating under the assumption that I am interesting or useful in any way?

Humans are social animals. They like being around other humans. Ook ook. That's really all that's necessary, aside from being socially compatible. Unless you have some condition that makes you significantly worse at face-to-face interactions, people who like you online will probably like you face-to-face.

Comment author: Armok_GoB 28 June 2011 12:26:59AM 1 point [-]

This is highly counterintuitive to me, but it's worth a shot and asking shouldn't hurt. Thanks. Still have no idea how to find anyone who lives close enough and might be interested thou.

Comment author: AdeleneDawner 28 June 2011 01:56:27AM 0 points [-]

This is highly counterintuitive to me...

Extraverts are weird like that. It's generally counter-intuitive to introverts, but observably true in many (possibly most, depending on how you account for selection bias) cases anyway.

Comment author: Armok_GoB 28 June 2011 08:44:15AM 0 points [-]

I don't see quite how introversion or extroversion is relevant to this. I don't see why they'd expect the quality of social interaction to be higher quality than some random neighbour within walking distance.

Comment author: handoflixue 28 June 2011 10:53:44PM 2 points [-]

The same reason you'd prefer to talk to them online, rather than some random person off AOL - you're someone who shares interests and has the intelligence required to follow what they're talking about.

Comment author: Armok_GoB 29 June 2011 09:26:13AM 2 points [-]

... Ooooooooh, NOW I get it. And feel like an idiot.