Logos01 comments on Rationality Lessons Learned from Irrational Adventures in Romance - Less Wrong
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Either you have or I have. As I believe I understand entirely what your position here is, I can't help but wonder.
Here's the thing: nothing I've been saying was tailored at any point to be specific to Less Wrong in particular.
It's also not a safe assumption, by the way, for the simple fact there is at least one person who recommends this community to every budding (or potential) rationalist he encounters -- me. At least one of those persons (my ex-primary of 10 years) has an exceedingly poor capability of grasping mathematics and probabilities. This was one of the reasons she and I didn't make it past that 10 year mark.
See, I suspect there might be a political element to this as well. I for one would strongly prefer that the second-order simulacrum be the standard assumption rather than requiring continued increased cognitive burden in discourse. It is true that we think in language; and therefore the language we use shapes our thoughts -- but language is a memeplex of symbolic representations of semantical content/value. If we adjust the symbol, we adjust the thought. But this is now becoming an altogether different topic of conversation.
Reductively, the long term is nothing more than a collection of near terms. What remains a constant near term burden over the long term becomes a long-term burden.
I remain of the position that constantly adding caveats and provisos to language regardless of where the focus of discourse at a given moment happens to be is a fundamental error in communication. Since we can't seem to agree on this topic, I have to wonder what postulates we aren't sharing in common.
Not judging but... this is a very novel reason for ending a 10-year relationship.
"One of" is a key term here. I also didn't provide any context for weighting of said reasons.
I didn't make those clarifications because it really wasn't relevant to the information I was trying to convey at the time. ;-)
Also, a factor like that may have been a significant cause of other more proximate issues.
Okay, I'll admit it -- that just got a grin and a chuckle out of me. Well done.
<slow golf clap>
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