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Comment author: Jack 11 October 2011 12:44:33AM 2 points [-]

Also, the very fact that you talk about "arguing [...] whether or not you can be [...] sexist [...] without [property X]" implies that there exists some Platonic idea of "sexism," since otherwise it would be a trivial question of whether property X is included in the definition.

It is trivial. Jandila's definition of sexism and racism does not include the speaker being a bigot as a necessary criterion. Now, I often complain to my anti-subordination activisty friends that a lot of people don't realize their definitions of racism and sexism don't imply that. It's a problem since people tend to get more defensive than they need to be when someone points out something they did or said that is racist, sexist, anti- gay, etc. But people getting defensive after they know these words don't imply bigotry really is silly. And yet it still happens-- which is why Jandila doesn't always have the patience to deal with it.

Comment author: Eugine_Nier 11 October 2011 03:15:44AM 5 points [-]

That's because words like "bigot, racist, sexist, anti- gay" are frequently used to sneak in conotations that the argument in question (and by extension the person making it) is somehow immoral and can be dismissed without looking at its validity, or at the very least requires us to engage in motivated continuation until the argument has been "rationally" dismissed. If you and Jandila don't mean to sneak in these connotations, say so; however, in that case you should probably pick a word that doesn't have these connotations in common usage.

Comment author: lessdazed 11 October 2011 05:37:15AM 2 points [-]

I didn't mind being told my behavior pattern matches with that of bad people's by people who I thought think probabilistically.

If someone were to see me handcuffed in the back of a police car with blood all over me, they should think me more likely to have killed someone than if they hadn't seen that. If they concluded I killed someone because they saw me there, they would just be stupid.

Comment author: wedrifid 11 October 2011 05:46:05AM 3 points [-]

If they concluded I killed someone because they saw me there, they would just be stupid.

Scary thing is: The jury is made up of these people!

Comment author: lessdazed 11 October 2011 06:31:56AM 1 point [-]

All I really need is for two (Asch conformity) of twelve regular people who accept stupid arguments to accept arguments I am not guilty, or one nut juror, or one intelligent juror.

Comment author: Jack 11 October 2011 03:38:47AM 2 points [-]

I am reticent to discuss this without there being any object level issue-- I don't trust either side's claims about how these words are 'frequently used'. I would be comfortable evaluating a specific instance of the use of these words but I suspect discussion of how they tend to be used will just leave people insisting on generalities that flatter their own ideology. Both sides have ways of framing the other's rhetorical techniques as harmful and destructive to honest communication. And both sides are often oblivious to what the other side is saying. Usually when words like sexist and racist are thrown out the users usually have reasons why they used those words instead of others despite (or I guess sometimes because of) connotations. But again, those reasons can't be evaluated in abstract.

Comment author: lessdazed 11 October 2011 05:17:56AM 2 points [-]

I suspect discussion of how they tend to be used will just leave people insisting on generalities that flatter their own ideology.

I think that the burden of proof is on those criticizing authors for using particular language.

But again, those reasons can't be evaluated in abstract.

It ought to disqualify the prosecutors from bringing such cases if there can't be evidence to support them, so it seems to me you're on a "side" if you think that.

Comment author: Jack 11 October 2011 05:32:32AM *  3 points [-]

I think that the burden of proof is on those criticizing authors for using particular language.

Both sides are criticizing the other for using particular language. Bob says x. Susan says saying x is racist (criticizing Bob). Bob says saying something is racist sneaks in connotations (criticizing Susan).

It ought to disqualify the prosecutors from bringing such cases if there can't be evidence to support them, so it seems to me you're on a "side" if you think that.

I don't know what you're talking about here.

Edit: If I understand you right I guess I don't see a justification for 'burden of proof' type analyses except in literal court rooms. There usually isn't a reason for them other than presumption and status quo bias.

Comment author: lessdazed 11 October 2011 06:30:41AM *  1 point [-]

Both sides are criticizing the other for using particular language.

The criticisms are importantly different.

"Susan says saying x is racist."

There is nothing wrong with that statement, but "arguing [...] whether or not you can be racist/sexist/whatever without intentionally being a bigot," is confused, though not necessarily accusatory.

"Bob says saying something is racist sneaks in connotations."

Bob is saying something not confused, but coherent and accusatory. "If you and Jandila don't mean to sneak in these connotations, say so;" is unfair. Bob has to address the argument as if those connotations were not intended, even if they probably were (in his mind), or weren't but probably are so misinterpreted by others (in his models of them), he can't decline to address the actual argument unless he has overwhelming evidence that it was designed primarily to manipulate and not substantially to present evidence.

If it's easier for Bob to show the argument is dishonest rather than refute it, it's fine to let him do that if he feels it is better for some reason, and I don't think Bob owes an explanation of how the argument was wrong or even an honest attempt to try and understand it, depending on how sinuous and sinuous it was.

Comment author: Eugine_Nier 12 October 2011 03:32:35AM 1 point [-]

"Susan says saying x is racist."

(...)

Bob has to address the argument as if those connotations were not intended,

The problem is that without the connotations associated with the word, Susan's statement doesn't even constitute a counter argument.

Comment author: Jack 12 October 2011 03:59:01AM *  1 point [-]

Susan's statement isn't supposed to be a counter argument, just an argument. (When I described the situation above I could have as easily started with "Bob does something racist" instead of "says. She may or may not have a propositional disagreement with what Bob said.)

[And now we have two threads about Bob. He is apparently both a racist and terrible with women.]

Comment author: Eugine_Nier 12 October 2011 04:29:20AM 2 points [-]

The presumed purpose of the statement is to criticize Bob's argument and/or action. To do this it relies on the connotations of the word "racist".

Comment author: Jack 12 October 2011 04:37:30AM *  1 point [-]

It relies on the implication that the user of the word frowns on racisms and that other people ought to as well. This is different from the connotation that someone who does something racist must be intentionally bigoted or some kind of secret white supremacist. The difference is that the first is merely a normative implication that is obvious to everyone while the second suggests additional beliefs about Bob that are being snuck in but not officially defended by anyone.

Comment author: lessdazed 12 October 2011 03:45:36AM 0 points [-]

What if someone thought that even with the connotations associated with the word, it still wouldn't constitute a counter argument?

Comment author: Eugine_Nier 12 October 2011 03:51:49AM 1 point [-]

Then why did Susan make that statement at all?

Comment author: lessdazed 12 October 2011 04:01:51AM *  -2 points [-]

Susan thought it was a counter argument.

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Comment author: Eugine_Nier 12 October 2011 05:11:40AM *  1 point [-]

Btw, Could you provide your definition of "bigot"? I've gotten a vague idea of what you mean by the word from context, but I'd like to see your formulation. (Note: be prepared to explain why being a "bigot" is obviously a "very bad thing".)

Comment author: Jack 12 October 2011 05:19:37AM -1 points [-]

Wikipedia looks fine:

The predominant usage in modern English refers to persons hostile to those of differing sex, race, ethnicity, religion or spirituality, nationality, language, inter-regional prejudice, gender and sexual orientation, age, homelessness, various medical disorders particularly behavioral disorders and addictive disorders.

(Note: be prepared to explain why being a "bigot" is obviously a very bad thing".)

I am not so prepared-- though it doesn't seem especially controversial to me I am vaguely open to an argument that it isn't obvious. But I don't see why I should be expected to explain why.

Comment author: Eugine_Nier 12 October 2011 05:33:29AM *  2 points [-]

The predominant usage in modern English refers to persons hostile to those of differing sex, race, ethnicity, religion or spirituality, nationality, language, inter-regional prejudice, gender and sexual orientation, age, homelessness, various medical disorders particularly behavioral disorders and addictive disorders.

So if I believe that, say, religion X is wrong and its teachings are immoral, do I qualify as a bigot under this definition?

Comment author: dlthomas 12 October 2011 05:40:26AM 0 points [-]

Only if you are therefore hostile to its members.

Comment author: Eugine_Nier 12 October 2011 05:45:53AM 1 point [-]

Only if you are therefore hostile to its members.

Depending on what you mean by "hostile" that may be a perfectly reasonable course of action.

Comment author: Jack 12 October 2011 06:03:48AM -1 points [-]

Thats a unique example in that definition, that, in retrospect I should have perhaps left out. Unlike the other groupings religion partly consists in beliefs and values which I think it is often important to be hostile to. Those beliefs and values are closely tied to the culture of a religion which I don't think people should be hostile to. I would not call someone a bigot for criticizing, mocking or insulting the beliefs and values associated with a particular religion. Doing the same to the people themselves or the culture, purposefully, and not the result of merely being uninformed or temporarily blinded would make a person a bigot.

Comment author: Eugine_Nier 12 October 2011 06:47:04AM 3 points [-]

What exactly is the criterion for being an element on the list?

Comment author: Jack 12 October 2011 06:54:57AM 0 points [-]

Obviously it's specific contents are political and I don't necessarily think it is complete (or as we seen without mistakes)-- but the criteria for an ideal list is something like 'classes of people that agents cannot help but be members of'.

Comment author: Eugine_Nier 12 October 2011 07:06:30AM 2 points [-]

Obviously it's specific contents are political

And that's the problem given that politics is the mindkiller.

Comment author: Jack 12 October 2011 07:16:47AM 0 points [-]

Yeah. It's a mess of a hard problem. Thats why I try not to talk about it here because nobody is good at talking about it rationally. I'm not defending every instance of someone calling something racist, sexist etc. I'm not defending everything the people who tend to do it nor the list of groups they do it for.

That being the case I don't think the solution is to deny the harms people are talking about when they complain about racism, sexism etc. And it's going to get talked about at some point just like all politics.

Comment author: Eugine_Nier 12 October 2011 07:37:59AM 2 points [-]

That being the case I don't think the solution is to deny the harms people are talking about when they complain about racism, sexism etc.

Nor is the solution to suppress discussion of statements that could be construed as bigoted. Even statements about race and IQ, or whether homosexuality is a sexual deviance.

To be fare, the main problem on LessWrong, as opposed to the world in general, is people engaging in motivated stopping and motivated continuation when discussing these topics in an attempt to avoid being sexist (for some reason race is less of a problem) and/or bigots.

Comment author: lessdazed 12 October 2011 06:11:42AM 1 point [-]

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What do you label with that symbol? How do you know no aspect of any of them should be criticized, mocked, or insulted?

Comment author: Jack 12 October 2011 06:13:35AM 1 point [-]

Good point. Consider it striked.

Comment author: lessdazed 12 October 2011 06:20:40AM 1 point [-]

I had assigned what felt like a 10% probability to your defending that without falling to the no true Scotsman fallacy, so I am disappointed.

Comment author: Eugine_Nier 12 October 2011 06:54:32AM *  1 point [-]

Also, what do you mean by hostile?

If I believe it's better for people not to have behavioral disorders or/and addictive disorders develop a treatment and encourage people with said disorders to take it, am I being hostile? What if I do the same w.r.t. homosexuality?

BTW, if the answer to both those questions is "no", I have no further problem with the definition.

Comment author: Jack 12 October 2011 07:01:34AM *  0 points [-]

Also, what do you mean by hostile?

Treating someone like an enemy. Shrug. I don't have a clear bright line or anything, the amount and intensity of bigotry someone must exhibit before I'm comfortable calling them a bigoted person is pretty high.

If I believe it's better for people not to have behavioral disorders or/and addictive disorders develop a treatment and encourage people with said disorders to take it am I being hostile? What if I do the same w.r.t. homosexuality?

In both cases it depends on why you want people to take the treatment.

We're now very far from what was a pretty contingent defense of another commenter's position and I don't especially enjoy the topic...