He is not intentionally attacking anyone.

No one is saying he is. In fact, the context of this entire thread is someone saying explicitly that no one is saying he is.

Jandila:

if there's one thing I don't need more of in my life it's arguing with a population comprised mostly of wealthy, white Libertarian-esque cisgendered/heterosexual men whether or not you can be racist/sexist/whatever without intentionally being a bigot.

When people say "that shit is gay" gay people feel marginalized and diminished. They feel hurt. Whether or not it was intentional (and certainly it often is).