TheOtherDave comments on The Power of Reinforcement - Less Wrong

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Comment author: TheOtherDave 21 June 2012 08:37:24PM *  1 point [-]

I agree that asking you about your kids solely to change your behavior is manipulative.
I also agree that it's insincere. (Which is an entirely distinct thing.)
I would also say that asking you about your kids solely to be polite is insincere.
I would not agree that any of these are necessarily unethical.

I am not quite sure what you mean by "ethically damaging advice."
I agree with you that it's not always unethical to positively reinforce others without their knowledge.
I would agree that "Positively reinforcing others without their knowledge is a good thing to do, do it constantly" is advice that, if taken seriously, would often lead me to perform unethical acts. I can accept calling it unethical advice for that reason, I suppose.
But I also think that "Positively reinforcing others without their knowledge is a bad thing to do, never do it." is unethical advice in the same (somewhat unclear) sense.

I agree that behaviors that depend on others' ignorance are often also bad behaviors.
Behaviors that depend on others' knowledge are also often bad behaviors.

Comment author: [deleted] 21 June 2012 08:50:11PM 1 point [-]

Agreed on all counts. In fact, it doesn't look like we disagree at all, judging from your comment.

Comment author: TheOtherDave 21 June 2012 08:51:36PM 0 points [-]

Oh good!
When you started out by saying "never do this," I concluded otherwise.
I'm pleased to discover I was wrong.

Comment author: [deleted] 21 June 2012 09:01:09PM 0 points [-]

Well, I think I'd stand by what I said originally. Though I guess I'm counting on no one reading that as the exceptionless proposition 'for all x such that x is a case of using positive reinforcement without someone's knowledge, x is unethical'. Likewise, if someone asked me, I'd say 'Don't ever shoplift, it's unethical.' Though I wouldn't want or expect anyone to read that as 'all cases of shoplifting are, without exception, unethical.'

Comment author: TheOtherDave 21 June 2012 09:07:08PM 0 points [-]

OK. I apologize for misunderstanding your original comment.

Comment author: [deleted] 21 June 2012 09:13:56PM 0 points [-]

Quite alright, I've enjoyed the discussion.