I think something very important to remember here is that different people learn differently
Weren't learning styles type ideas mostly debunked or rather turned out to be something for which very little evidence existed?
The most recent evidence suggests that how one is raised has an extremely significant effect on all aspects of mental ability - I think that that is likely to be far more important than anything which happens in school.
I would very much like citation since your most recent evidence conflicts with most of the other evidence I am aware of! From what I know early childhood interventions produce effects but these are temporary gains that mostly wear off over time, having very little to no effect on adult performance.
Having done some research, I find that you are correct, at least as regards to parenting and genetics. My 'cached' opinion was based on misleading information absorbed for what I though was good reason, but, on reflection, was just blindly following authority. Retracted.
Post by fellow LW reader Razib Khan, who many here probably know from the gnxp site or perhaps from his debate with Eliezer.