Having done some research, I find that you are correct, at least as regards to parenting and genetics. My 'cached' opinion was based on misleading information absorbed for what I though was good reason, but, on reflection, was just blindly following authority. Retracted.
Citing any key material you looked up might be useful for other people. Awesome job on actually checking out the literature yourself a bit and updating!
Rationalist hugs for you (if you want them)!
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Post by fellow LW reader Razib Khan, who many here probably know from the gnxp site or perhaps from his debate with Eliezer.