As a female, I wonder what it means that I don't react to behaviors like competing for status, class signaling and spending beyond ones means by being attracted

It means that the narratives surrounding pop-distillations of evolutionary psychological accounts of human sexuality shouldn't be given too much weight when evaluating actual human beings, mostly.

instead, I have the same feeling I get when people are being immature and stupid.

Same here; I tend to find it actively repellent.