Damn. "to cope" doesn't mean what I thought it means. I meant "come to terms". And I wrote that because I saw a quote by him where he said exactly this. Alas I can't find it. I read a lot of his postings on happiness and the result is: Either he didn't say it or he said it a long time ago or he said something slightly differnt. Either way I'm wrong and I realized that I should't have said it in the first place. At least not publicely. I'm sorry.