I have proper opinions regarding the matter and would like to have a discussion about it. [...] I do wonder if there is some truth in those kind of things.

The second sentence looks like you don't have a formed opinion about the issue.

That's even more extreme than the cold approach, but at the same time I think they both flow in the same river.

I didn't criticize cold approaching for being extreme. That's a strawman. The fact that you make it suggest that you don't have a "proper opinion" on the issue. You didn't engage with the issue of cold approaching producing anxiety.