drethelin comments on Open Thread, Jul. 6 - Jul. 12, 2015 - Less Wrong

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Comment author: drethelin 08 July 2015 04:07:02AM 10 points [-]

Conversation is a team sport, with a minimum of two players. A "boring" person can be characterized as someone who does not contribute interesting anecdotes or facts to a conversation, or asks no interesting questions. Like most team sports, a bad player can be "carried" to victory by sufficiently good team. So while it's certainly possible that you were talking to boring people, a more actionable and probably more rewarding point of view to take is that you were being boring, and strive to learn techniques for making a conversation more engaging for you and your team.