I'm curious. If you had been examined by a male nurse, would you have felt the same need to give an extended explanation?
Even more so, because the male nurse might assume I'm gay otherwise.
I've noticed some little-studied cognitive biases here, because sexually experienced people tend to force ready-made "explanations" on male incels that make them comfortable, instead of trying to study and understand incel as its own phenomenon. The canned explanations lead to bad conclusions and useless advice for men like me. How would seeing a prostitute teach me how to get into sexual relationships? Men who get their sexual experience exclusively from prostitutes can remain ...
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