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I'd rather that too, and I've had it go wrong in both directions. But the whole point of much of this site is that outcomes are more important than principles. Saying "do you want to come back to my room for sex?" is not going to change society, it's just going to make you personally come off as a creep.
I'm not sure its always creepy, not if you've already kissed them. Depends on circumstances. Inviting someone in for coffee and then trying to fuck them can be pretty creepy too.
But I agree that I can't change society, and so I might as well conform to the rules.