Followup to: The Most Important Thing You Learned
What's the most frequently useful thing you've learned on OB - not the most memorable or most valuable, but the thing you use most often? What influences your behavior, factors in more than one decision? Please give a concrete example if you can. This isn't limited to archetypally "mundane" activities: if your daily life involves difficult research or arguing with philosophers, go ahead and describe that too.
Mostly things that I've observed. For instance:
If you try to anticipate someone else's misinterpretations of what you say, you are likely to match their reply to your expectations using regular-expression-like matching and reject their response, without fully parsing it.
Often, it's better to say one insightful thing than to say one insightful thing and two less-insightful things, because the less-insightful things are easier to respond to.
Developing expertise in overcoming bias, and "trying really hard" to overcome bias, doesn't overcome bias. It can make bias worse, by becoming an excuse not to update in response to the ideas of others.