Foreword
This book has been reviewed pretty thoroughly already. Rather than restate each chapter, I'll be sharing insights: some book-specific, some general.
I am quite proud of my time-to-completion for this book - just over a week, working around a very strenuous courseload. I went from having to focus really hard to pick up new concepts to reading notation nearly as fluently as the English surrounding it. The chapters started making sense - it felt less random, and more like a coherent story wherein the protagonist slowly adds owers to their arsenal.
Naïve Set Theory
Functions
Functions are just static sets of ordered pairs . They are not dynamic indexing functions, they do not perform efficient lookup, please do not waste an hour of your life trying to figure out how you could do such a thing within the simple machinery afforded by set theory up to that point.
This is one of those things that Nate talked about - how skipping over just one word a few chapters prior can cause you to waste hours. During my confusion, I knew this was probably the case, but I still couldn't manage to immediately overcome my intuitions of what a function should be. This is one reason I'm open to working through the MIRI Research Guide with others.
Families
Families are, ironically enough, just a special kind of function; don't let your intuition fool you - they aren't "groups of functions". A family belonging to maps each element of the index set to an element . For example, a family from to could be (thanks to Dacyn for helping me clarify my writing).
Zorn's Lemma
I spent three hours staring at this proof. I understood what ZL meant. I grasped the relevant concepts. I read other versions of the proof. I still spent three long hours on this damn proof, and then I went to my classes. I don't know why I ended up figuring it out, but I suspect it was a combination of two factors: my brain worked through some things during the day, and I really wanted it. On the bus home, I mentally snapped and decided I was going to understand the proof. And I did.
I'm pleased to share my detailed proof outline of Zorn's Lemma, the product of many hours of ambient exasperation, rewritten in my own notation. Looking back, the proof in the book was pretty bad; it was neither succinct nor intuitive, but instead imposed a marais of mental variable tracking on the reader. I think mine is at least a little better, if not fully fleshed-out at all junctures.
Proof Calibration
As someone without a formal degree in mathematics, it was important for me to monitor how I approached the exercises in the book. Whenever the author began a proof, I tried to generate a mental proof sketch before reading further. Sometimes, I thought the proof would be easy and short, but it would turn out that my approach wasn’t rigorous enough. This was valuable feedback for calibration, and I intend to continue this practice. I'm still worried that down the line and in the absence of teachers, I may believe that I've learnt the research guide with the necessary rigor, go to a MIRIx workshop, and realize I hadn't been holding myself to a sufficiently high standard. Suggestions for ameliorating this would be welcome.
Forwards
Anticipation
One factor which helped me succeed was that I ensured my morning reading was what I most looked forward to each day. I was excited to go to sleep, wake up early, prepare a delicious breakfast, and curl up near the fireplace with book and paper handy. Trivial inconveniences can be fatal - do whatever you must to ensure you properly respect and anticipate your study time.
Defense with the Dark Arts
The most useful productivity-related advice I ever read was by Nate Soares (Dark Arts warning), and it relates to imbuing your instrumental goals with terminal values. Ever since having read that advice, every tedious assignment, every daily routine, every keystroke - they're all backed up by an intense desire to do something about the precarious situation in which humanity finds itself.
Internal Light
If you don't know where to start, I think the internal fire has to be lit first - don't try to force yourself to do this (or anything else) because you should. Stop the guilt-based motivation, proudly stake out what you want, and transform your life into a dazzling assortment of activities and tasks imbued with your terminal values, your brightest visions for yourself and the future.
My most basic math misunderstanding in school went something like this. Take an equation like "x+1=3". You can subtract 1 from by both sides and get "x=2". But why can you subtract 1 from both sides? Like, if two things are "equal", why can you subtract 1 from both of them and the results will still be "equal"? What does it mean for different things to be "equal" and why does it respect certain operations?
Luckily, my school had math teachers with a clue. They didn't dismiss my question or answer it outright. Instead they agreed it was a meaningful question that I should solve myself. Eventually I figured it out: expressions are "equal" if they point to the same platonic thing (say, a number within the set of real numbers). When you subtract 1 from both sides of an equation, you're subtracting 1 from the same platonic thing, so you end up with another platonic thing with two pointers pointing at it.
Shortly after that, emboldened, I approached my physics teacher with another basic confusion: are physical objects open or closed sets? If they are closed (include their border points), how do they touch? And if they are open (don't include their border points), how do they touch? My physics teacher was also pretty good and replied that we don't know, but it's not very relevant to touching, because what we call touching is actually interaction at a distance.
I've had many such confusions since, while learning all kinds of things. These confusions seem hard to predict and are rarely emphasized in textbooks, probably because they are personal: everyone has different sticking points and different magic words for overcoming them. That's part of the reason why explaining stuff to a specific person who can ask questions back feels more productive than writing for a broad audience.