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Why Lonely People Stay Lonely
I imagine such behavior could happen if someone had a bad experience in the past, that they were disproportionally punished in some social situation. The punishment didn't even have to be a predictable logical consequence; maybe they just had a bad luck and met some psycho. Or maybe they were bullied at school, etc.
If their social skills are otherwise okay, they may intellectually understand what is usually the best response, but in real life they are overwhelmed by fear and their behavior is dominated by avoiding the thing that "caused" the bad ... (read more)