Stross makes a few different claims, but they don't seem to add up to any kind of substantial critique of singularity-belief. The simulation argument is just a tangent: it doesn't actually have anything to do with the probability of a technological singularity. He basically says he doesn't think uploading is likely and then describes why it is undesirable anyway.
The argument that religious opposition to uploading will prevent it from being introduced is parochial, since there are huge countries like Korea, China, and Japan which are overwhelmingly secular, and where the technology could very plausibly be developed. In addition, secularism is increasingly dominant in North America and Europe, so that viewpoint is short-sighted as well. More to the point, I sincerely doubt religious people would really have a problem with (other people) uploading in the first place. Stross's view that people would launch holy wars against uploaders seems like paranoia to me.
I wouldn't call Korea "overwhelmingly secular" in the same way Japan is. Christianity is very common in South Korea, and Japan is...more religious than you might think; the local mix of Shinto and Buddhism that prevails works rather differently than Christianity in the West.
I periodically get email from folks who, having read "Accelerando", assume I am some kind of fire-breathing extropian zealot who believes in the imminence of the singularity, the uploading of the libertarians, and the rapture of the nerds. I find this mildly distressing, and so I think it's time to set the record straight and say what I really think.
Short version: Santa Claus doesn't exist.
- Charles Stross, Three arguments against the singularity, 2011-06-22
EDITED TO ADD: don't get your hopes up, this is pretty weak stuff.