The recommendation may have been from here originally but I can't find it now:
It's been recommended multiply times on LW and in the HPMoR author notes, but is worth re-recommending, particularly since you gave and above average summary. Also, the author lists Old Man's War as a significant inspiration, but has said elsewhere that he just took a few specific ideas and didn't actually like Old Man's War overall.
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