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Lumifer comments on Polling Thread - Less Wrong Discussion

12 Post author: Gunnar_Zarncke 22 January 2014 09:14PM

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Comment author: Lumifer 24 January 2014 02:22:32AM 1 point [-]

Because the consequences of assuming a woman does not follow the Team Red model when she does are so terrible, a man is better off provisionally assuming that all women operate under the Team Red model.

The consequences you linked to are exactly the same for assuming a woman follows the Team Red model when in fact she does not.

Comment author: [deleted] 24 January 2014 10:25:23AM 1 point [-]

Refusing to marry a woman who wouldn't divorce you anyway? I can see that consequences of doing that are also bad, but “exactly the same” sounds like a stretch.

Comment author: Lumifer 24 January 2014 03:39:45PM 0 points [-]

No, failing to sustain a satisfying relationship because you are giving your wife what you assume she should want, except that she actually doesn't.