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Fully agree with first part. Last part is wrong.
Better solution is, if you are in doubt and are bad at reading signals, ask a friend.
This worked out well for my husband and me. I had told him I'd had a dream in which we were making love, and he asked a friend if that meant I liked him. And they told him yes, of course (or I'd not have told him even if I'd had the same dream). Been together for ~20 years now.
I'm impressed that he could possibly fail to interpret that as a very direct hitting-on with high certainty.