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Comment author: Elo 15 July 2015 09:05:54PM *  0 points [-]

I experienced a discussion on facebook a few months ago where someone tried to calmly have a discussion, of course it being facebook it failed, but I am interested in the idea, and wanted to see if it can be carried out here calmly, knowing it is potentially of controversy. I first automatically felt negative to the discussion but then I system-2'd it and realised I don't know what the answers might be:

The historic basis of relationships was for procreation and child rearing purposes. In the future I expect that to not be the case. either with designer-babies, or just plenty of non-natural birthing solutions as to make the next generation make-able without needing to go through a regular-family structure.

At that time, the potential for intra-family sexual relations would be possible and not at all whatsoever biologically-risky of causing genetic abnormalities.

How will the world's opinion change about intra-family intra-relations in the future?

Potentially anyone consenting could have sexual encounters with anyone else who is also consenting. However there are existing relationships where one party carries the power - i.e. parent-child, where even if the child is above consenting age (even as far as 10+ years above the age of consent) there can still be power held by the parent over the child.

That was the only point of value before the thread turned to a mush-zone.

Of course there already exist normal relationships with power imbalances. And as was mentioned a few days ago here - an abusive relationship sucks if its from an AI to you, or from a human partner to you.

Any thoughts?

(Edit: inter -> intra, Thanks @Artaxerxes)

Comment author: Jiro 15 July 2015 10:37:20PM 5 points [-]

The big phrase to keep in mind for incest is "conflict of interest". We are expected to keep certain kinds of social relations with our relatives. Also having romantic and sexual relationships conflicts with those.

Furthermore, because there is a natural tendency for humans to be less attracted to close relatives than to others, it is in practice very likely that a sexual/romantic relationship with a close relative will be dysfunctional in other ways--so likely that we may be better off just outlawing them period even if they are not necessarily dysfunctional.

Comment author: Elo 15 July 2015 10:53:15PM -1 points [-]

I am of the opinion that I am "of similar brain" genetically and phenotypically and equally theoretically "of similar mind" to people who are related to me. Therefore able to get along with them better. When looking for partners today, I look for people "of similar mind", or at least I feel like its a criteria of mine.

Do you have a source for "natural tendency for humans to be less attracted to close relatives than to others"? I am interested.

Comment author: Jiro 16 July 2015 12:25:53AM 7 points [-]

Do you have a source for "natural tendency for humans to be less attracted to close relatives than to others"? I am interested.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Westermarck_effect

Comment author: Elo 16 July 2015 04:03:39AM 0 points [-]

Thanks! I am not sure how my knowledge of the universe had a hole in this specific space.

Comment author: ChristianKl 15 July 2015 11:11:04PM 2 points [-]

Do you have a source for "natural tendency for humans to be less attracted to close relatives than to others"? I am interested.

One mechanism is the MHC complex

There are other mechanism that prevent siblings that lived together as children from developing romantic interest in each other as well. As a result most cases of incest between siblings are not by siblings that lived together as children.

Comment author: Elo 15 July 2015 11:24:51PM 0 points [-]

That has impressive applications on why foreigners or "exotic" people have a bonus placed on them for desirability. I must say I did know about MHC mechanism, and the studies done on birds, but not the human one. Also I did not connect the two.

Thanks!