I know a girl who has been accidentally raped because of drunken misunderstandings.
A girl saying yes to coffee isn't an excuse to not look for consent when having sex. Saying yes to coffee just means consent to move to a different location.
This is true, but its not that simple. When you're in private, its a far more dangerous situation, and, for instance, some girls will be scared to say no because of the possibility of violence.
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