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Comment author: bogus 06 October 2015 06:43:00PM *  4 points [-]

that comment was altogether too close to suggesting that women should be distributed to men they don't want sex with.

Why not ask advancedatheist to make his opinion clearer? My internal model of AA does not include him being especially supportive of, say, ISIS' sex slavery (to take one crystal-clear example of "women ... be[ing] distributed to men they don't want to have sex with"). Could it be that you're simply misinterpreting his original intent?

Comment author: RichardKennaway 06 October 2015 06:53:14PM 5 points [-]

Why not ask advancedatheist to make his opinion clearer?

He has been sufficiently clear already. Nitpicking over the exact role he sees for women in society as he would arrange it is something that cannot possibly be to the benefit of this site and its community.

Comment author: ChristianKl 06 October 2015 07:46:48PM 3 points [-]

Why not ask advancedatheist to make his opinion clearer? My internal model of AA does not include him being especially supportive of, say, ISIS' sex slavery

That's a strawman. AA speaks in favor of traditional partriarchy and that's a system that has arranged marriages where woman often have little to say about whom they want to marry and then have sex with.

Comment author: Lumifer 06 October 2015 06:53:56PM *  2 points [-]

My internal model of AA does not include him being especially supportive of, say, ISIS' sex slavery

Does it include him declaring that society must make sure that men get enough sex, whatever it takes, and then averting his eyes from the "whatever it takes" particulars?

Comment author: bogus 06 October 2015 07:20:48PM 2 points [-]

Well, what should "whatever it takes" mean, exactly? Very few values are anything close to non-negotiable - EY's Sequences are unusually clear on this.

If I had to guess, I'd say that AA thinks "men getting enough sex" could be achieved cheaply enough, by improving male attitudes (and more broadly, societal attitudes) towards masculinity and sex. That would doubtlessly make some radical feminists uncomfortable, but this is clearly the sort of "policy" option that's actually on the table. Which means that even treating your "particulars" as if they could ever be meant seriously is a batshit-crazy misrepresentation of what incels are actually talking about.

Comment author: Lumifer 06 October 2015 07:22:49PM *  4 points [-]

Well, what should "whatever it takes" mean, exactly?

Averting one's eyes means that you never ask yourself that question.

"Make it happen, I don't want to know how" is not a terribly uncommon sentiment.

Comment author: NancyLebovitz 07 October 2015 02:39:36PM -1 points [-]

I think you meant "improving female attitudes".

Comment author: bogus 07 October 2015 03:39:19PM *  1 point [-]

Well, I can't speak for the whole incel subculture, but I'm pretty sure I meant what I wrote above. Of course, the point of changing societal attitudes is that once you stop telling women that they're supposed to hate "toxic" masculinity, their attitudes will improve as well. But that's pretty much obvious.

Comment author: NancyLebovitz 07 October 2015 06:51:47PM 4 points [-]

No problem-- I was reacting aa's complaints that women are too picky about men, and also revolted by men.

A lot of this discussion has convinced me that communication is difficult.

Comment author: bogus 07 October 2015 08:23:34PM *  0 points [-]

Yeah well, this whole exercise starts making very little sense once you go into such specifics - Viliam is right about this. It might be that you're putting too much weight on that one single complaint (which would just be considered a typically 'edgy' throwaway remark if it came from within the incel 'community'), or that I'm oversimplifying in assuming AA shares the broader views of the incel subculture and, more generally, the "Dark Enlightenment" (incels, redpillars, puas, neoreaction, what have you).