Updating on how much of a danger it is to me personally for you to be this upset with what I'm trying to do by getting more people out there in the world to be more sane.

I'm not upset with you. I'm at worst irritated, and that's entirely because your style bothers me on a visceral level, and honestly, the amusement factor usually makes up for it.

The common element of all of those things is that they're things I suspect or have suspected might be true of you, because of the way you behave - and by using the various materials that created those suspicions as "evidence" for them, the rumors are [ETA: Could be, rather] made to sound disproportionately valid. (Something you've said elevates hypothesis to "Extremely weak" plausibility levels for me; I suggest the hypothesis, elevating it to "Extremely weak" plausibility levels in others, then, after that update is made, separately present circumstantial evidence, causing them to elevate further. Double-counting evidence, basically.)

In the end, however, I assign very low probabilities to any of them (which is to say, I don't believe them), and I think you're a muggle pretending to be a Dark Lord, with just enough success at the pretense to achieve the effect of making my skin crawl, and probably benefitting from it on a personal level because it's a step up from your previous level of social expertise. And at any rate, I wouldn't actually unleash any such attacks, regardless of how antagonistic I felt towards you, unless I actually thought they were true.

You may notice a tendency about my use of Dark Arts: I try to always be clear about when I'm using them and what I expect them to do, if not while I'm doing it, after the fact. I'm not a fan of them, because I think that they have negative-on-average payouts. Which I suspect you'd disagree with, for the aforementioned reason that I suspect your social skills aren't terribly good, and you're experiencing more success using them. If this is the case: So far, you're relying on luck. As I hope I've demonstrated, a single suspicion produced by their use could do far more than erase the positive benefits you may have accrued so far.