Ah, I didn't follow the link to Piper's blog so my expression was misguided -- I take it back.
In this case, I think, her complaint reflects the status game mismatch -- either she's playing it and her conversation partner isn't, or vice versa, she is not and he is. It's hard to tell what is the case.
If it's worth saying, but not worth its own post (even in Discussion), then it goes here.
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