Some things to bear in mind in relation to Kegan's work are
Pretty well everyone thinks that they are 1-2 levels higher than they are actually at. This may include you. It certainly included me.
Most people are at level 3 or below.
Very few people under 30 are at level 4.
Hardly anyone is at level 5.
This from Kegan.
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