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Nornagest comments on A Rationalist Guide to OkCupid - Less Wrong Discussion

24 Post author: Jacobian 03 February 2016 08:50PM

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Comment author: Nornagest 05 February 2016 08:36:18PM *  1 point [-]

I don't give out a lot of compliments in general. But when I do, I've had better luck complimenting people on appearance when it's stuff they obviously chose and put effort into: a haircut; tattoos; choice in clothing. Few people like to be complimented on stuff they didn't do anything for; many people like to be complimented on stuff they did.

(If you try clothing, though, be aware that "nice top" is likely to be read as "nice breasts".)