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philh comments on Open Thread Feb 29 - March 6, 2016 - Less Wrong Discussion

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Comment author: buybuydandavis 01 March 2016 09:36:00AM 7 points [-]

I find it strange, and counter to my own values, that telling people "shut up, I don't want to hear what you want to talk about" is considered "polite", while talking about what you want to talk about, without asking permission first, is considered rude.

Comment author: philh 01 March 2016 10:22:45AM 2 points [-]

Saying "I don't want to hear that" when specifically asked if you want to hear it is very different from "shut up, I don't want to hear what you want to talk about".

Comment author: buybuydandavis 01 March 2016 11:15:17AM *  2 points [-]

Yes. I was referring to the latter, which I've seen a lot of.

So much so, that people tip toe around and ask for permission to speak.