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Ixiel comments on Open Thread June 6 - June 12, 2016 - Less Wrong Discussion

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Comment author: Ixiel 10 June 2016 10:02:09AM 0 points [-]

It's somewhere a little below the 'n' word or the 'r' word, but above "douchebag" or "liberal." As one might imagine, it doesn't come up much. And again, I was commenting on how it feels from the inside, not on how it looks to the audience.

Comment author: Lumifer 10 June 2016 02:21:09PM 1 point [-]

The rankings of insults in subcultures is a fascinating topic :-) What's the "r" word, redneck?

Comment author: Ixiel 10 June 2016 02:35:37PM 0 points [-]

Mentally challenged person. I wonder if it's considered less offensive among people who use etymologically similar words, like firemen (flame retardant) or biologists (to retard growth.)

Like for me, "faggot" is not in my calling-people-it vocabulary - AT ALL; I know like five gay people, all of whom cool, one of whom my uncle, and of none of whom am I afraid, so please don't think I'm homophobic - but in hearing others' reactions it seems to be more offensive to people who collect less firewood. If the 'n' word were also a day to day common noun, I wonder if I would be more okay using it demonstratively even with such an evil history.

Comment author: Lumifer 10 June 2016 02:50:23PM 2 points [-]

I wonder if it's considered less offensive among people who use etymologically similar words, like firemen (flame retardant) or biologists (to retard growth.)

It's less offensive among those who actually work with retarded people :-/

"Mentally challenged" type of insults seem to have their own cycles of use. Words like "idiot", "imbecile", or "cretin" used to be a clinical diagnosis, then stopped being medical terms, and nowadays are considered to if not mild then non-horrible.

Comment author: Ixiel 10 June 2016 04:15:14PM 0 points [-]

I suppose that makes sense. Still raises my heart rate when I hear it, but that's my problem not the speaker's, and I'll defer to people with more experience on propriety.