A blog post by Alistair Roberts, as curated by Steve Sailer. (Steve's version is shorter and more targeted; the original blog post is the fourth in a series on triggering and suffers for its reliance on the particular issue.)
It seems like a very useful dichotomy, and strongly reminds me of Ask and Guess.
The idea that whoever loses their temper first is wrong is one of the most idiotic, backwards notions I've seen taken seriously on this site. Should we just find the calmest person on earth and give THEM the keys to our AI development, because they never get angry and thus can't possibly be wrong?
P.S. If you mind my flippant response, you're clearly in the wrong!
P.P.S. Please have a sense of humour :)
It's not that the one that gets angry is wrong, it's that if anger or offense is all you've got to refute the argument against, you lose.