Same, I’ve been using https://clay.earth for this with good results. Biggest things I’ve noticed:
Taking quick notes after interactions with “I can get” and “I can provide” helps when trying to remember things before your next conversation
Clay will automatically update location and remind you about people without you needing to set reminders manually, which removes a lot of grunt work
People see through periodic “it’s been a while!” texts sent on the first of each month. Thoughtful gifts and things like holiday cards with a handwritten note go a long way toward making things feel intentional.
Same, I’ve been using https://clay.earth for this with good results. Biggest things I’ve noticed: