I think my problem is that far too often I make decisions as if I am in the "should universe" described here:
One of the failure modes I've come to better understand in myself since observing it in others, is what I call, "living in the should-universe". The universe where everything works the way it common-sensically ought to, as opposed to the actual is-universe we live in. There's more than one way to live in the should-universe, and outright delusional optimism is only the least subtle. Treating the should-universe as your point
I think my problem is that far too often I make decisions as if I am in the "should universe" described here:
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