I understand your critique, and I mostly agree with it. I actually would have been even happier if Merida had bitten the bullet and married the winner - but for different reasons. She would have married because she loved her mother and her kingdom, and understood that peace must come at a cost - it would still very much count as a movie with no romantic angle. She would have been like Princess Yue in Avatar, a character I had serious respect for. When Yue was willing to marry Han for duty, and then was willing to fnpevsvpr ure yvsr gb orpbzr gur zbba, that was the first time I said to myself, "Wow, these guys really do break convention."
Merida would have been a lot more brave to accept the dictates of her society (but for the right reasons), or to find a more substantial compromise than just convincing the other lords to yrg rirelbar zneel sbe ybir. But I still think it was a sweet movie.
I agree that it was a sweet movie, and overall I enjoyed watching it. The above critique is a lot harsher than my overall impression. But when I heard that Pixar was making their first movie with a female lead, I expected a lot out of them and thought they were going to try for something really exceptional in both character and message, and it ended up undershooting my expectations on those counts.
I can sympathize with the extent to which simply having competent important female characters with relatable goals is a huge step forward for a lot of works. Ir...
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