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I would say that there's a version of advancedatheist's comment (and many of his other comments) which is giving good advice based on truthful premises, but it's not this version, and advancedatheist gets approximately zero benefit of the doubt at this point.
Like, yes, it is probably true that failing to develop a complete social skill set will cause you social problems later in life, even in those parts of life that are not to do with sex or dating. Turns out, social skills are also used in the workplace.
But taken in context, that advice reads more like "men should learn the skills to help them pick up women, and this will help them in the workplace", which needs a lot more justification. And we also get "if girls aren't attracted to your son, you need to fix your son", which... there might be a nugget of value somewhere nearby in advice-space, but as written it has so many issues that all I feel like saying is "fuck that".
(I don't feel like continuing to pay the karma tax, so I probably won't continue this.)
Edit (because I'd like to make an unrelated point without paying the tax twice): I also feel like there's a common theme in aa's posts in the open thread. He'll ask a question that sounds fairly generally applicable and rationality-related. Then he'll say something which is related to the question, but which mostly sounds like it's about PUA from the perspective of assuming PUA is (good/true/praiseworthy/whatever).
And then consider the comment "some blogger wrote about AI. I don't know why he bothers to blog, he doesn't get as many comments as popular bloggers like ". (Admittedly, I don't actually recognise all those names.) Why those specific bloggers? If someone were to actually attempt to compile a list of blogs based on their popularity, would any of those names come up? Does Carrico have anything in common with those people? Why even bring up the question of why Carrico bothers?
aa doesn't seem to be posting in good faith here. He just seems to have an agenda of popularising PUA (with perhaps a side order of neoreaction or something along those lines), and while I don't dislike PUA as much as some, I would like him to shut up and go away.
I'm not saying this for the benefit of aa, because I'm pretty sure he knows what he's doing and engaging with him would be unhelpful. But for the benefit of others who wonder why he seems to get downvoted so much: this is why I, personally, am quick to downvote him, and I imagine others are similar. (I don't downvote him automatically, however.)
Most of those aren't PUA bloggers, actually, although they do recognizably share a certain cluster of perspectives. Megan McArdle is a libertarianish policy blogger with the Atlantic. Vox Day is mainly a spec-fic blogger, lately notorious for association with what SSC readers might recognize as l'affaire du reproductively viable worker ants. Steve Sailer is hard for me to classify, but in this crowd he'd probably be ... (read more)