Most valuable IMO is the idea that relational practices expose shadow sides for processing that individual practice doesn't.
I have problems with much of his stuff due to having the 'look how much more inclusive my metaphysics is' problem where the framework gives you more degrees of freedom than the phenomenon being explained, allowing you to cold read yourself. This is covered in technical explanation of technical explanations. You want your framework to have fewer degrees of freedom than the system it describes (compression), that's where your predictive constraints come from.
Ok, I’m gonna read this book. Just reread this summary; so good! Thanks again for writing it up! As they say, sorry I only have one super upvote to give you.
The concept of "fake framework", elucidated in the original post, to me it seems one of a model of reality that hides some complexity, sometimes even to the point of being very wrong, but that is nonetheless useful because it makes some other complex area manageable.
On the other hand, when I read the quotes you presented, I see a rich tapestry of metaphors and jargon, of which the proponent himself says that they can be wrong... but I fail completely to see what part of reality they make manageable. These frameworks seems to just add complexity to complexity, without any real leverage over reality. This makes those frameworks draw nearer fiction, rather than useful but simplified models.
For example, if there's no post-rational stage of developement, what use is the advice of not confusing it with a pre-rational stage of developement? If Enlightenment is not a thing, what use is the exortation to come up with a chronologically robust definition of the same?
This to me is the most striking difference between "Integral spirituality" and say a road map. With the road map, you know exactly what is hidden and why, and it's evident how to use it. With Wilber's framework, it seems exactly the opposite.
Maybe this is due to of my unfamiliarity with that material... so someone who has effectively found out something useful out of that model can chime in and tell their experience, and I will stand corrected.
Post-rational is a place of development, and it was named by various parties outside of lw terminology.
Integral becomes an organising principle for other concepts to rest in.
For example, if there's no post-rational stage of developement, what use is the advice of not confusing it with a pre-rational stage of developement?
It's quite different when CFAR tells you to listen to your emotions via focusing when facing a tough decision then when a random celebrity tells a person to listen to their emotions when facing a tough decision.
CFAR's position would be "post-rational" in Wilber's terminology while the random celebrity would be pre-rational (CFAR is a yellow place and not a orange one).
I fail completely to see what part of reality they make manageable.
I think the frameworks built on earlier work, and this review is not intended as a basic introduction (which would include the motivation/benefit).
The following quote was called out in a deleted comment, but I think there is something to discuss here that would be missed if we didn't come back to it even though that comment was ruled off-topic.
Thus, ultimate concern was displaced to science, a concern that its methods were simply not capable of handling. And science itself was always completely honest about its limitations: science cannot say whether God exists or does not exist; whether there is an Absolute or not; why we are here, what our ultimate nature is, and so on. Of course science can find no evidence for the Absolute; nor can it find evidence disproving an Absolute. When science is honest, it is thoroughly agnostic and thoroughly quiet on those ultimate questions.
The now deleted complaint was that this is saying something like science is in a non-overlapping magisterium from the question of whether or not God exists. I agree trying to claim separate magisterium is a problem and doesn't work, so what do I see as the value of including this quote?
Mainly to highlight a point that I think is often poorly understood: that science, for all the good it does, intentionally cuts itself off from certain kinds of evidence in order to allow it to function. Maybe we can debate what is the "real" science, but I'm thinking here of the normal, run-of-the-mill thing you'd call "science" we find going on in universities around the world, and that form of science specifically ignores lines of evidence we might call anecdotal or phenomenological and, for our purposes, ignores questions of epistemology by settling for a kind of epistemological pragmatism that allows science to get on with the business of science without having to resolve philosophy problems every time you want to publish a paper on fruit flies.
This choice to pragmatically ignore deep epistemological questions is a good choice for science, of course, because it lets it get things done, but it also means we cannot take results like "science finds no evidence of supernatural beings or some ever-present unifying force we could reasonably label God" as stronger evidence than it is. Yes, this is pretty strong evidence that there is no God like the kind you find in a religious text that interacts with the world, but it's also not much evidence of anything about a God that's more like an invisible dragon living in a garage. The thing that lets you address those sorts of questions is a bit different from what is typically done under the banner of science.
This quote does go a bit too far when it says science should be "thoroughly quiet on those ultimate questions", because it does have something to say, but I still thought it worth including because it highlights the common overreach of science into domains which it specifically rules itself our from participating in by setting up its methodological assumptions so that it can function.
(This last point put another way, think of how annoyed you'd be if every time you told your friend you felt sad and wanted a hug they said "I don't know, I can't really measure your sadness very well, and it's just you reporting this sadness anyway, so I can't tell if it's worth it to give you the hug".)
The part about people closing their minds as they pursue a spiritual tradition is an interesting one; it seems to conflict with the historical examples of spiritual traditions. Consider for example how so much of the early information about Buddhism came from Jesuits who learned from Tibetan and Sri Lankan monks.
I deeply fail to grok the motivation for using simplistic schemes for things, like this color wheel example. I suspect that the goal is to make it seem easy to categorize so people feel like they are making progress. How it actually feels to me is like the author is planting a big STOP HERE sign. Sort of a macro-level motivated stopping sign.
But it is a cast-iron convention in self help books, and self help books sell a lot, so there must be something people like about it that I'm not getting.
Graves's color levels aren't simply a way to sell self help books. Clare W. Graves was a university professor who spent 7 years to gather data about >1000 people on which basis he came up with his system.
Colors have the advantage that they come with less preexisting notions then preexisting words like systemic or holistic.
It's also not a wheel but a spiral (hence the name Spiral dynamics), it's not a simple model.
I'm not questioning the qualifications of the source or the goodness of the concepts, just the method chosen to communicate them.
If the point of the system is to introduce an inferential gap on purpose, with the goal of leaving unintended associations behind, I can see the reasoning but disagree with it. I see a lot of attempts to do this, and a lot of discussion using such systems, and virtually nothing in the way of coming back down from the abstractions to object-level recommendations again.
This is likely the result of applying the system badly, but the ease with which a tool is misapplied an important factor in the goodness of the tool.
Would you say that Kahnman's work of speaking about system I and system II doesn't do anything to come to object-level recommendations and he should have used fast system and slow system instead of speaking about the numbers?
Kahneman's work does an unusually excellent job of coming to object-level recommendations. That seems to be what he is doing with his time now.
I don't think using fast and slow would have hurt those ideas at all, what with it being the title of the book. Further, I've seen plenty of cases of trying to wrangle the dichotomy by piling on additional words like the elephant-or-rider conversation.
I also note we don't talk about system 1 and system II much anymore. Looking at the Curated list for the last three months, I see plenty of posts that are aiming squarely at system 1 or system II, applying one system to the other, or describing one specific technique that could be called system I or II...but virtually none of the posts say anything about either of them or mention Kahneman. We've moved past the point where a binary distinction is useful to our discussions, and broad familiarity with the underlying concepts is assumed without the need for additional terms.
This suggests some combination of system I/II being easy to apply correctly, or the community being unusually good at applying it, or both.
It looks to me like how powerful a system is and how difficult it is to apply correctly are very different questions, and it feels like they are rarely balanced well. I think this is probably very difficult to do, and have seen people failing to apply systems correctly way more often than I have seen them succeed, which gives me a very low prior for unfamiliar systems' utility.
the motivation for using simplistic schemes for things, like this color wheel example.
I think the purpose* is to make it memorable/easy to teach. Someone who employs it might say they're following the 80/20 rule. If you're teaching, starting with a simple model is one approach - and not everyone is interested in more details (whether or not you have them). The main advantage (specific to this case) is that by coming up with stages being colors means you can classify other things by stage and use color as an adjective in the same way. Color wheel might be the wrong word - if you go all the way along a wheel, you're back where you started. Whereas if you progress in the "red"/"blue" direction, eventually you leave the visible colors for the invisible (eventually stopping at radio waves/gamma radiation).
*It is also possible that things which have such traits (simple models like color wheels) become more popular/successful. I am not sure whether or not self help books are an intentional paradigm, or if the authors like it so they use it.
colours are meant for efficiency of communication. (Knowing the colour coding) I can describe bringing red values into a blue system, or wanting to bring in healthy orange to a crushing blue bureaucracy (Spiral dynamics colours). Assuming other people also know the system, conversation can go on without me having to explain a whole load of conceptual framework.
But if we assume other people also know the system, why would you have to explain a whole load of conceptual framework?
How is this superior to addressing the object-level concerns directly?
Edit: I definitely misread that last sentence. Ignore me!
That's a bit like saying that doctors shouldn't use a category like major depressive disorder but instead speak about the object-level concerns of a individual symptoms.
Having a short handle for a complex concept makes it easier to talk which other people who understand the concept and now that the handle points to it.
The pre/post conflation reminds me of Terence Tao's discussion of math pre/post proofs (https://terrytao.wordpress.com/career-advice/theres-more-to-mathematics-than-rigour-and-proofs/), which I've found to be a helpful guide in my journeys through math. I'm not surprised the distinction occurs more widely than in just math, but this post has encouraged me to keep the concept on hand in contexts outside of math.
I also enjoyed the discussion about how various religions are all getting at the same concepts through different lenses/frameworks. As an atheist, I have no interest in, say, Christianity per se; I enjoy learning about the historical, psychological, and sociological components in the same way I enjoy learning about many aspects of humanity, but I'm not really interested in things like grace or transubstantiation or exegesis because it all falls under the label "false" or "irrelevant". Having said that, I'm also very much aware that many Christian thinkers have insights that are relevant even for people who don't share their belief in God. But I can't get myself to slog through writing that is mostly false/irrelevant just to glean some nuggets of wisdom.
It would be excellent to find a book that synthesizes all of the most insightful aspects of the major religions, strips them of their cultural/theological labels into something more generic, and presents the stuff that's been "replicated" (in the sense of multiple religions all coming to the same conclusion modulo cultural/theological labels). Do you know of a book that does this? Is Integral Spirituality a good example? It seems like it's in the right ballpark, or at least would reference many books that are.
Integral spirituality is an earlier Ken Wilbur work, I've just started "religion of tomorrow" and it might be what you are looking for. I am only a few pages in right now so no guarantees.
I don't. Integral Spirituality might have some of what you're looking for, but only incidentally, since it's really trying to do something else.
Awesome! I’ve really enjoyed reading this. Quite a lot of ideas resonated in a surprising new way. I might actually read this book. Thanks for writing up the summary!
I would have liked some links to definitions of terms used as they come along, e.g. the colors and meditative levels (the former I could google the latter less so).
Thanks! I found particularly useful the reconciliation between "integrating the shadow" and "not identifying with your feelings".
Cross-posted from Map and Territory
Apologia
A couple months ago a friend gifted me a copy of Ken Wilber's Integral Spirituality. At first I was skeptical about reading it: I'm pretty busy and didn't have much context to think I would learn from it. But he talked me into it, prodding me to at least just read the introduction, which he promised was relatively short (35 pages, so basically the length of a long blog post) and densely packed with interesting content. At the time I was almost done reading another book, and figured "what the heck, I'll just read the intro and can decide from there".
Given that you're reading a post with "Integral Spirituality" in the title, I think you can guess what happened next.
I mostly want to share a lot of things I highlighted in the book—passages I thought could stand to be more widely read—because Ken Wilber has put words to many of the thoughts I would like to share but haven't made the time to write about. However, I need to give these passages a little context, so I'll do my best to give you a very high level, whirlwind tour of Wilber's themes.
The nominal purpose of this book is to discuss spirituality, and Wilber does that plenty, but I honestly think of this book as more about Wilber's integral theory and just happens to use spirituality as a topic to address integral theory. So what is integral theory? In short I'd say it's a way to work with all evidence so you can update on it so you aren't forced to ignore or dismiss evidence that doesn't fit with your worldview. That is, most of the time most of us start from a place of undervaluing some information and overvaluing other information we encounter because it suggests that our understanding of the world (ontology) is wrong or right, respectively; integral theory helps rehabilitate this tendency by showing how to integrate evidence that has different purposes. A pithy way to put this would be: everything is evidence of something, nothing is evidence of everything. There's a lot of subtlety I'm eliding here because I don't think I can do justice to the whole theory with the amount of effort I would like to expend, but you can find a few primers online, and I worked towards the same end in my "Methods of Phenomenology" post, albeit by liberally abusing the proper scope of the word "phenomenology" to do it.
I should warn you, though, before diving too far down the Wilber hole that although I think Wilber is often right, his ideas are easily misunderstood. In Wilber's terminology he'd say something like people are understanding his Indigo ideas through a Green, Orange, Amber, or even Red perspective, but that's hard-to-penetrate jargon. So think of it this way: you know how you feel when that thing you care about a lot gets talked about in the news and all the subtlety and nuance and real value is stripped out and rounded off and the ideas get flattened down to something the least educated member of adult society could understand? That's how I feel reading 90% of what's written about integral theory, including stuff Wilber writes because for all his insight he relies heavily on jargon that's easily misunderstood and without already having some idea of what he's pointing at it can easily sound like woo (we can debate whether this is better or worse than doing the philosopher thing of using jargon that's difficult to understand at all, which is my preferred tact). This is extremely unfortunate but it's an old problem, and I don't expect it to be solved soon, so I encourage you to press on anyway for the nuggets of wisdom—that's mostly what I've pulled out here in the quotes and tried to minimize the woo and jargon, although there is still some.
Also be warned that Wilber is also not very good at citing sources even if he does often have valuable insights. Better to think of him like a Ribbonfarm blogger than a research scientist before you jump all over him. Put another way, he goes in hard for fake frameworks that are sometimes useful nonetheless.
Further, if talk of spirituality, religion, and other things you might find in the metaphysics section of a bookstore put you off, you might just bounce and not be able to look through your ugh fields to see if there's something here in these quotes. He's written other books I've not read, and I suspect Integral Psychology and the more recent Integral Politics would be of interest to many readers if they dislike talk of spirituality. However, Wilber very much treats spirituality as a human-universal that is often misunderstood, so if you feel some ugh about spirituality I'd encourage you to read the quotes anyway because you might find them surprisingly tolerable from his perspective. Plus, some of these quotes aren't directly about spirituality anyway, just neat insights he shared. You might say I rounded up all best "insight porn" in Integral Spirituality to share with you here.
Okay, that's enough context and caveats, on to the quotes!
Quotes on Mental Development
On misunderstanding stages of development that are two stages apart:
On the importance of some underlying axis of development that is necessary but not sufficient for development along all other axes:
On developmental stages still being models and not direct reality (your regular reminder that the map is not the territory):
On how every human has to develop from nothing up to something (made in the context of pointing out how we need institutions to help with this development):
Quotes on States and Stages
Wilber makes a distinction between states (temporary ways of being that you move through for a time) and stages (ways of being that are persistent).
On the relationship between states and stages:
On the difficulty of figuring out how states and stages are related:
On a very important point about how states and stages are related and how they get confused:
On making that same point in a slightly different way that might connect better:
On still really driving this point home:
If you're much familiar with developmental models, they tend to end prematurely relative to where you might think they would end if you are familiar with, say, maps of enlightenment.
On the lack of these stages in most developmental psychology models:
Quotes on Psychology and Shadow
On how the psychological shadow develops via dissociation in response to cognitive dissonance:
On what the phenomenology of what dissociation, projection, and the shadow looks like:
On the general mechanism of dealing with the psychological shadow so that it may be overcome:
On a better interpretation of Freud (this is not exactly a novel insight, but most readers forget they learn about Freud via translation and the translation has had a pretty dramatic effect on how his ideas are understood in the Anglosphere):
On the insufficiency of meditation to deal with the shadow (sadly I wasn't able to find a good quote without a lot of jargon that makes this point, so to summarize, Wilber argues that psychotherapy is important because it deals with something that is invisible if you only meditate, a methodology that focuses on how you experience the world, because it will on its own consistently fail to help you notice how you are misperceiving yourself):
More details on how the shadow is addressed, first by re-owning it (ending the dissociation) and then transcending it (detaching from it in a healthy way):
And a bit more on that last point:
On how all this talk of shadow and psychology relates to spiritual, cognitive, and psychological development (this will sound very familiar if you're familiar with Kegan's The Evolving Self):
A bit more on how development can happen via psychological work:
On how meditation can help with development, given the context we just explored:
Quotes on Social Systems
Many of these quotes are about thing that I expect many of my readers are not confused about, but I nonetheless find them interesting because there is much to learn from understanding why you are not confused about something even if you are already not confused about it.
On how the social is not like the individual:
On how the social and the individual interact and reflect each other in some ways and differ importantly in others:
On the power of "we" despite it not being a "super-I":
Quotes on Spirituality
On the different ways spirituality is interpreted (sorry for the heavy jargon in this quote; I hope the main point still comes across):
On the multiplicity of spiritual paths that, despite different ways of interpreting them, seem to point towards a core, shared spiritual path that manifests differently in different traditions:
On how to avoid becoming trapped by a particular spiritual framework:
On the relationship between post-Enlightenment Western society and spirituality:
On how modernity both succeeded and failed (cf. Chapman):
On how the spiritual baby got thrown out with the religious bathwater:
On how science became scientism and accidentally dissociated from an important part of the human experience (rather than developing a healthy detachment from it):
On how atheism is a form of spirituality:
Quotes on Consciousness
On the relationship of the physical and the mental:
On the indirectness of experience:
On the nature of consciousness itself:
Final Thoughts
I hope you found the above quotes insightful. My guess is you found yourself nodding along to some things, surprised by others, and disagreeing or even angered by some of the others ("how dare Gordon make me read this bullshit!"). Like much insight porn, I think much of the value of these quotes is as jumping off points for exploring your own thinking about these topics by giving you different ways of looking at familiar topics.
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