Building habits: requesting advice on installing mental software

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7 Building habits: requesting advice on installing mental software

by jsalvatier

12th Jun 2011

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I'd like to figure out how to create habits more effectively and systematically, especially mental habits.

For example I might want to develop habits like

Noticing when I'm getting distracted and thinking about what I could do to reduce it
Noticing when I'm procrastinating and thinking about what I could do to reduce it
Doing Fermi calculations to estimate how much I should pay attention to a topic

Is there relevant research on how to build habits? Anyone have notable success at systematically building habits? I'm also interested in hearing about destroying habits, does it seem any different than creating habits?

My current (1.5 week old) approach to building habits is to use Anki to remind myself to do specific exercises.

I create a short exercise on a card that tells me to run through a sequence of thoughts or actions that constitute the habit I want to build, preferably using real examples. For example: the card might tell me to get into the frame of mind of getting distracted and then brainstorm ways to get less distracted in the future. When I see this card, I might try to get into the frame of mind of getting distracted by the thought of checking my email while coding and then try to think of ways to make myself less distracted by email.

I have been creating cards in one of two formats:

One half of the exercise on the front and one half on the back
The whole exercise on the front and a verbal reward on the back which I try to say out lout to myself.

My hope is to make an association with specific mental or external feelings and a particular thought process. This seems to be working a little bit, but it's too early to tell if it's working well.

Does anyone know of better software for doing exercises semi-regularly? I doubt Anki is ideal for this because I expect the frequency should decay more slowly to really make these things habits and probably should not continue decaying indefinitely.

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[-]timtyler14y30

Some of the scientific basics: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Operant_conditioning

[-]zntneo14y20

I would be interested too. I have had huge problems not only with habits but routines in general. I have a bs in psych and understand operant and classical conditioning very well (along with the post by tim i would add this to your reading). None of this information has helped me in the following areas exercise eating healthy procrastination many many other things

[-]jsalvatier14y10

On procrastination: I have found the material in lukeprog's post summarizing the literature on procrastination fairly useful. Have you tried to apply it?

[-]zntneo13y10

Actually i have two of the books he heavily relied on. The procrastination equation and psychology of modern day life. The problem i also have a huge problem with motivational issues

[-]Nic_Smith14y20

Does anyone know of better software for doing exercises semi-regularly? I doubt Anki is ideal for this because I expect the frequency should decay more slowly to really make these things habits and probably should not continue decaying indefinitely.

IIRC, the similar jMemorize is very customizable in its scheduling.

[-]atucker14y10

Do you have any particularly good patterns of thought that could be put in anki?

I found that since using the Mysterious Answers to Mysterious Questions deck "If I expect to believe ___, then I should just believe it now" as a cached thought that's come into play a few times.

[-]jsalvatier14y10

Well I suffer from fairly heavily from procrastination, so thinking reflexively doing a diagnostic using some model of procrastination (such as) would be quite valuable to me.

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