I moved the big meta-level comment thread from "Yes Requires the Possibility of No" over to here, since it seemed mostly unrelated to that top-level post. This not being on frontpage also makes it easier for people to just directly discuss the moderation and meta-level norms.
That is a bit more specific than what I meant. In this case though, the second more broad meaning of "someone who's trying to gum up the works of social decisionmaking" still works in the context of the comment.