I moved the big meta-level comment thread from "Yes Requires the Possibility of No" over to here, since it seemed mostly unrelated to that top-level post. This not being on frontpage also makes it easier for people to just directly discuss the moderation and meta-level norms.
We just added the ability to easily identify a post as frontpage or personal on our test-server today. Should be out by early next week.
You can currently tell by hovering over a post in a list of posts, or by looking at the moderation guidelines at the bottom of the post (which will always include "frontpage moderation guidelines" if it's a frontpage post).