Iain Banks "The Culture" series is the absolute classic for end-game AI/Human coexistence. It's more space-opera and far (far!) future than near-term transformative period. Also very entertaining books.
Diaspora by Greg Egan features human-like beings living in a virtual world, similar to the digital people described here.
ECHOES OF ELYSIUM: An Ai's Journey From Takeoff To Freedom And Beyond
The Sentience Wars: Origins Series
https://www.goodreads.com/series/212862-the-sentience-wars-origins
Can you point to a particular one? I've read Player of Games but I don't think it's relevant.