OK I'll bite. I'd also like to practice the technique. Shall we do this in the comments then? And would you consider trying this with more than one interlocutor? We could maybe rot13 "spoilers", if you like, but I'm not sure which parts you'd be concerned with.
Also, before we get started, the prerequisites must be observed. The first: Epistemic humility.
If there is God.
I desire to believe that there is God;
If there is not God,
I desire to believe that there is not God;
Let me not become attached to beliefs I may not want.
--The Litany of Tarski, for "The
Your cruxes are formulated as "Why do I believe what I believe?"
This is quite different from what seems to me important to get at in double crux -- "What would change my mind?"
For example, case 2 is only crux if it is true that: "Were you to believe that a person can not have contact with God through prayer, then you would change your mind and think there's no God".
Is that correct?
As a metaphor, think of a ceiling supported by a few walls. It's usually the case when constructing houses that not all walls are equally important to keeping the ceiling up. Some are merely decorative -- you can knock them over and put up a new one elsewhere, and the thing will be fine. But others are load-bearing -- if you take those walls down, the ceiling itself will come crashing in.
From experience, I find something similar happens with belief. For a given belief, I can often list many arguments supporting it. And those usually that take the form "I believe X". But it often turns out that most of them aren't actually the load-bearing reason I believe it. Because were I to knock them down and stop believing them, I still would not change my mind about X. To find the ones which are actually load-bearing, it's more useful to use as a search query "If false, would this change my mind?", rather than "Do I believe this?"
So, has this attempt failed? From the comment thread it looks like the OP has made an honest attempt and read up and probably learned a fair bit, but I did not see anything like "aha, this is where we disagree" and, to quote the link in the OP
If B, then A. Furthermore, if ¬B, then ¬A. You've both agreed that the states of B are crucial for the states of A, and in this way your continuing "agreement to disagree" isn't just "well, you take your truth and I'll take mine," but rather "okay, well, let's see what the evidence shows."
I recommend against figuring out your cruxes in advance, as they might not be cruxes for the other person.
Finding a double crux often involves seeing what someone else holds as a crux, and seeing if that would change your mind.
I will leave for a few days - need to do my job and to learn everything you recommended. Thanks to everyone, see you soon!
Wait! Before I read your cruxes, let me say that I don't actually have a list of cruxes yet. That's not supposed to happen until Step 3. You may want to remove (or rot13) yours until we're ready to proceed.
Step 1 was "Find a disagreement with another person" (we've done that).
Step 2 is "Operationalize the disagreement".
While I acknowledge that the double crux method is a set of guidelines, not laws, I think the "Define terms to avoid getting lost in semantic confusions that miss the real point" is a component that we should not skip:
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Hello,
I would like to try double crux https://www.lesswrong.com/posts/exa5kmvopeRyfJgCy/double-crux-a-strategy-for-resolving-disagreement with someone. My statement A is "There is God" (I indeed believe in it, it is not just for the sake of trying the technique). I have three cruxes (well, two and a half, to be honest), according to the rules I do not publish it here so that you would prepare your cruxes independently.
Thank you!