6nne

Given the way you wrote this, it sounds like you're using the word "polycule" to mean something like "a group of people who are all dating all of each other." I've recently heard a few people use the word "polycule" as if this is the definition.

But, uh, I've been polyamorous for 8 years, and I've literally never heard of this happening. The closest thing I've seen is a triad, in which a group of three people are all dating each other, but that's quite rare and often isn't very stable. (Newly-nonmonogamous married couples sometimes explicitly seek out a bisexual woman to date both of them, but this almost never works out. This... (read more)