Disclaimer: This text was written to reflect a state of mind with no other audience than myself in mind. Only later did I get the impulse to publish this. I would therefore like to emphasize, that this is not intended as a guide, a recommendation for behaviour, or anything like that.
Instead, the text is intended to evoke a specific frame of mind in the reader, which I found hard to communicate (even to myself) when I was not in this state of mind. But I have since heard, that some people were identifying strongly with this, so, this is to them then.
I’m falling when I wake. Soon after, I hit the ground.... (read 855 more words →)
I think the issue is with the "get what I want" part. Isn't this treating people as a means to an end, instead of treating them as an end in and of itself?* (I think that Kant would not be happy - though I don't know of anything that has been written on lesswrong about this.)
If you are talking to another person and you are trying to convince them to adopt a certain view of you, that is not what I would call truth-oriented. So, whether you specifically lie, omit, or whatever; it's already secondary. If your goal is to have an honest interaction with another being, I don't think you can... (read more)