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Several studies have shown that it's common for women to fantasize about being raped. I think it's rare for men to do so, tho I don't remember if the studies showed that. This is relevant though not conclusive information.
Substitute in correlate for constitute (which is what I was already doing; I assumed "part of" meant "projection of my multi-dimensional evaluation onto non-misogyny dimension), and my point remains the same.
Similarly, women don't necessarily want to be abused. But some quality that women want very much correlates strongly with being abusive. They have to figure out what it is, and give it up. Or keep it, and stop complaining.
I bet that [restated] female receptivity to mistreatment [/restated] goes way back in mammalian evolution. It's common in mammals for "courtship" of a female to consist of a strange new male beating up and driving off the female's mate, then killing her... (read more)
I think the question these women need to ask themselves is, "What do I really want?"
I've had about a hundred close male friends over the course of my life. Not one whom I chose as my friend ever, to my knowledge, beat, abused, humiliated, or manipulated a woman in any of the ways described in this post.
If I can pick 100 men and score, as far as I know, 100% in picking non-misogynistic males, when that isn't even a big part of my criteria, how can so many intelligent women fail when picking just one man? The only explanation I can think of is that it's an even smaller part of their... (read more)
It's a good post. It doesn't give me any information about whether I'm wrong, because both "Most men are brutes" and "Females prefer self-centered males" predict that many women will have such stories.