A commitment to being healthy and happy could be a good idea. The information from the Blue Zones could provide lots of useful ideas.
A commitment to love could also be a good idea. Love 2.0 book has scientific research in this field.
On a simpler note, you could commit to a long walk in nature with your wife every month or every fortnight. Find a nice trail and keep returning there for a nice slow walk. You could use this time to unwind or to calmly discuss what you could do about things.
we're both of us well into politics-as-mindkiller territory here, and I don't think prolonging the discussion is going to be useful in this venue.
I agree. I also discovered that my comments are down voted into oblivion.
I have to assume that my contributions to this forum are not yet of high enough quality.
Anyways... I'm grateful for your comments. They have been uncomfortable and made me think.
google says that the definition of greed is "intense and selfish desire for something, esp. wealth, power, or food."
Prosocial behavior, or "voluntary behavior intended to benefit another",is a social behavior that "benefit[s] other people or society as a whole," "such as helping, sharing, donating, co-operating, and volunteering."
You are talking about a state that takes everything from everyone beyond what they "need".
I never said anything about the state taking.
"Totalitarian" is exactly the right word for this. This is a vision of the state giving and the state taking away, where all belongs to the state and personal property is to be justified by a plea of need.
Again... you are projecting your vision of what I said but you did brought up an interesting idea... the idea of personal property. I don't think land should be owned by people. If people don't own the land, then it follows that houses should not be owned by people.
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I'm wise enough to know that giving people like myself the power to allocate all money isn't the solution either. There are many things I don't understand.
It doesn't have to be black and white.... all to NIH OR all to projects like yours.
To me... investing money in exploration, in research is a defensible position and research... by its very nature is unknown territory. As long as you can make a rational argument for why you think the allocation of resources is warranted, you should have a chance of getting some. ;)
If that's the reigning philosophy I don't think humanity survives the next 200 years.
What do you think would happen?
So? You want to reduce the diversity of model of learning.
I have no idea how you derived this conclusion from what I've said.
Last week I attended the Berlin Bachata Congress. Bachata is a dance. Organizing such a context means flying world class teachers from all over the world to Berlin and paying for a location in which to held the event.
I can resonate with an example like this because I learn tango right now and yes... there are masters that could help one improve the technique BUT... I don't see how this constitutes a valid example since is mixing current model with what I was exploring. If plane tickets cost... (read more)
It's just that being a heretic is hard work.
I agree. I'm only at the beginning. One of the reasons I started to lurk around here is a need for clarity in my own thinking. I often am vague and expose half baked ideas. I hope that this will change in time.
Does any of you has any relevant experience that you can share with Immunity to change by Robert Kegan and Lisa Laskow Lahey?
I'm currently reading their book and I find it fascinating.
Oh well... I'm totally ok on being downvoted on accounts of low quality of my comments however, I wasn't really expecting people here to downvote comments just because they don't agree with them. I have adjusted that belief now and will act with a little bit more caution.
I guess I did that :) but it was a good lesson. It pointed to the fact that I should refrain from speaking without having at least a reasonable model about what I am speaking about. :)