Don't defer to people when they're clearly lying
There is a pattern that it seems to me rationalist-type people are prone to: 1. Internalize a belief X widely endorsed by society, which has many implications for actions. 2. Notice that people don't actually do the actions that are implied by X. 3. Do actions implied by X really...
Yudkowskian self help thought is weird such as the "firewall" (between beliefs and what would be good to believe)
But I think my mind doesn't work with the firewall, for example if I slightly delulu myself that my efforts will work out I have energy and such, and idk how to get these benefits with the firewall.
I recall it was a big problem for me for a few weeks when I was reading hpmor