wedrifid comments on Welcome to Less Wrong! (July 2012) - Less Wrong

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Comment author: wedrifid 27 July 2012 02:37:07AM *  2 points [-]

The antagonist is the rapey cultural artifact of forced marriage.

There should be a word for forcing other people to have sex (with each other, not yourself). The connotations of calling a forced arranged marriage 'rapey' should be offensive to the victims. It is grossly unfair to imply that the wife is a 'rapist' just because her husband's father forced his son to marry her for his family's political gain. (Or vice-versa.)

Comment author: Alicorn 27 July 2012 08:05:21AM 1 point [-]

I wasn't specifying who was being rapey. Just that the entire setup was rapey.

Comment author: wedrifid 27 July 2012 08:07:34AM *  2 points [-]

I wasn't specifying who was being rapey. Just that the entire setup was rapey.

That was clear and my reply applies.

(The person to whom the <word that is not rapist> applies is the person who forces the marriage. Rape(y/ist) would also apply if that person was also a participant in the marriage.)