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Specific! :P Which is the most interesting one you've read so far? We might have recommendations of similar ones that you would like.
So, I found my introversion much easier to manage when I started scheduling time by myself to recharge, and scheduling infrequent social events to make sure I didn't get into too much of a cave. It had been easy to get overwhelmed with social events near each other if I didn't have something on my calendar reminding me "you'll want to read a book by yourself for a few hours before you go to another event." That sort of thing might be helpful to consider.
Some of my favorite articles, off the top of my head (and a bit of browsing) :
I have Meetup.com to organize and schedule social events, and of course there's the LW meetups. I get plenty of alone time, so that isn't really a problem for me. (Some minutes of thinking later) The particular issues aren't something I can accurately put into words, but they're something like 'active avoidance of (perceived) excessive attention or expectations, either positive or negative' and 'fear of exposing "personal" info I'd rather not share, and of any negative consequences that might result'. Perhaps not surprisingly, I greatly prefer internet or written "non-personal" communication over verbal communication.